The Dreaded Talk

Soo.. have you ever not been able to please your partner sexually? Well it’s what I am facing right now. Before this relationship sex and pleasing my partner was easy. TBH .. before I began dating women... I dated men and to say the least men where easy or I just had a lot of practice. Now faced with a woman that I love... I can’t make her cum.

After being together a year, you would think that I would have had some success. Bit no.. failure after failure. Easily my failure has continued to be the conversation that comes up often. Knowing that I am not pleasing her has sent me down a spiral of emotions. And for the most part I am afraid.

She claims that other than that the sex is great but how can it be when I can make her naturally cum. Is the sex great really? ... I’m just doing the best I can. I just hope it’s enough. I pray that I can become a better lover.